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joeannaz
02-13-2011, 08:49 PM
Hi everyone,

First off, let me say that I had to register a new account so that I could stay anonymous talking about this. A lot of you might be able to recognize who I am based on the information, because I've talked about it privately. I don't want any of my real life friends or family to find out about this just yet, so please respect my attempt to stay private.

My problem is that my husband has been acting really strangely lately. He's almost completely normal when he's around me, we still talk just as much, and we spend roughly the same amount of time together. There are still a host of problems, though. For one, he's not as interested in... physical intimacy, as he was before. We've been married for about five years, and have been making love steadily about two or three times a week -- until a couple months ago, when it suddenly dropped off to more like two or three times a month. The other thing is that he's been going to the gym a whole lot more lately. I keep telling him that I think he's beautiful as he is, but he has a new obsession with getting even more muscular than he already is. I don't really MIND so much, because, well, my man's pretty hot. But it's a weird change in routine.

The thing that makes me worried the most, though, is that a couple days ago I went to type an address into the web browser on our desktop computer. When I started typing, a weird address came up in the recent sites list -- a dating site. I don't really know much about this kind of thing, but this is the site in case it matters at all. (http://yourdailypicfix.com/find-hot-dates/?mn=12345) Now, I know that I can't hold a candle to these young women he could find on there physically, but I can't believe my husband would actually cheat on me just because of that! In fact, I'm holding up rather well for my age (35), I work out... but I guess I'm just not as attractive as a 20 year old :-\

So my question is... what do I do next? Do I confront him? I feel like this is hardly rock-solid evidence of anything, and I certainly don't want to ruin my marriage if I'm wrong. I don't know what to do. Help please!

slaghari
04-01-2011, 12:21 AM
i suppose, the best thing is to be patient but be more observant. however, the seed of doubt grows. try going with him to the gym. stay around him lot more. if he avoids you then God bless you its the sign... cheer up. people go through changes. let him be.

seoparveen1
04-01-2011, 05:12 AM
First of all you don't take tension there is solution of every problem.Get information about him where he go and which persons meet him and every thing about.If you found him wrong then first talk to him about it and understand him that to think about you.Solution can be found by talking each other and clear the misunderstanding.

sneha123
05-07-2011, 05:59 AM
Hi guys...I like this ideas..." the best thing is to be patient but be more observant. however, the seed of doubt grows. try going with him to the gym. stay around him lot more. if he avoids you then God bless you its the sign... cheer up. people go through changes............thanks for sharing....

good luck !!!!!!

sneha

Whatisthetruth
05-11-2011, 03:00 PM
well get back in the kitchen and make him a goddamn pie!

I kid I kid =]

Looks like he's been watching porn and thats popped up. Seriously its one of those stupid pop up things, it said find hot dates in (then has where you live 9 times out of 10) as it had my home town and I bet when you view it, it has yours, I don't think its anything to worry about

BlueAngel
05-11-2011, 06:03 PM
well get back in the kitchen and make him a goddamn pie!

I kid I kid =]

Looks like he's been watching porn and thats popped up. Seriously its one of those stupid pop up things, it said find hot dates in (then has where you live 9 times out of 10) as it had my home town and I bet when you view it, it has yours, I don't think its anything to worry about

If you suspect your husband might be cheating, my advice is that CC is not the place for you to seek advice.

In Peace,
BlueAngel