In any case, it sounds like you subscribe to the paternalistic theory of the 'White Mans' burden, where you're saying that its a duty for whites to stay and support the blacks?
Iím saying that we need to forgive and forget. And THEN we can help each other. SA used to be a really nice place, but this entire debacle with Zimbabwe and Affirmative Action has created more racial tension. Although it is inevitable, when the whites evacuate Zim, it will cause an awful lot of racial conflict. What a mess.