Seriously?!? That would be your response.
Not sure I would be so calm,when someone can lie about something so serious.
However, if you hadn't realized when you did, when would he/she tell you? If at all.
Imagine you only found out once you both naked in bed...what then? I could see some men beating the crap out of him/her.
I cant believe im talking about this when the worlds biggest disaster is happening.
Im off to listen to James Fox!