Because I read your post I posted mine. And I feel this more than answers your post.
I have no reason to think that you are not a sincere believer in a reformed Islam. But sadly what you propose goes totaly againts what is written in your holy book ) and in the traditions and history of your system, and you cannot change that.
Unless you are proposing a new muslim testament with a new profet there is no future in what you expose.
In islam the more you depart from your writting the more humane it becomes unfortuantly the reverse is true also.
I will not answer a verse by verse debate because it will lead nowhere. We can be here shooting texts against texts for the next 20 years. I go to directly to the root.
Peace be with you Ahmad I wish no ill but I will always stand against what you and your brethern say. Because God is GOD of Love.