Re: Be not afraid, you people, for she has arisen!
Nothin like PASSION.
I've reflected on this quite a bit, and to be honest, I only can recall one girl whom I had intense passion for and she returned it as well.
Not to brag, but we would spend about 4hrs in bed. We were like peanut butter and jelly, or ham and eggs, it just worked at a mind blowing level, where looking back on it, I'd have to say we had MAGIC. I've never been on a honeymoon, but they must be like that!
I've been with a few women, but sadly, most of the experiences were not this good for me, and I'm sure they felt the same way.
Things are rarely as they seem on the surface
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Analyse any human emotion, no matter how far it may be removed from the sphere of sex, and you are sure to discover somewhere the primal impulse, to which life owes its perpetuation. ... The primitive stages can always be re-established; the primitive mind is, in the fullest meaning of the word, imperishable. ... Mans most disagreeable habits and idiosyncrasies, his deceit, his cowardice, his lack of reverence, are engendered by his incomplete adjustment to a complicated civilisation. It is the result of the conflict between our instincts and our culture. (Sigmund Freud)
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The Containment Field: KAMA SUTRA EXPLAINED HERE Cunnilingus: How To Eat Pussy. Sexy Techniques, Positions, Clitoris Vagina Orgasm, Sexual Health, Lesbian
Cunnilingus: How To Eat Pussy
Sexy Techniques, Positions, Clitoris & Vagina Orgasm, Women's Sexual Health, Lesbian Arousal
Oral Sex Guide: Cunnilingus Techniques & Tips
When a woman finds a man who gives good head, she's found a treasure she's not going to let go of too quickly. This is one rare customer and she knows it. So, remember, most guys can fuck, and those who can usually do it satisfactorily, but the guy who gives good cunnilingus, he's got it made. To begin, most women are shy about their bodies. Tell her she is beautiful, which parts you like best - you have to get her trust before she lets you down between her legs.
Now stop and look at what you see. Beautiful, isn't it? There is nothing that makes a woman more unique than her pussy. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes. Appreciate your woman's unique qualities and tell her what makes her special. Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during love-making. They also respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to get her off. So all the time you're petting and stroking her beautiful pussy, talk to her.
Now look at her vagina again. Gently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Now spread the tops of her pussy up until you can find her clit. The clitoris of women have in all different sizes, just like you guys have different sized cocks. It doesn't mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin. Whenever you touch a woman's pussy, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit because it doesn't have any juices of it's own and it's extremely sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it's dry and that hurts. But you don't want to touch her clit anyway. You have to work up to that. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled.
Approach her pussy slowly. Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her pussy, then float away. Make her anticipate it. Now lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy. Nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her.
After you've done this to the point where your lady is bucking up from her seat and she's straining to get more of you closer to her, then put your lips right on top of her slit. Kiss her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her pussy lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of pussy flesh. Gently spread her legs more with your hands. Everything you do with a woman you're about to eat must be done gently. Tongue-fuck her. This feels divine. It also teases the hell out of her because by now she wants some attention given to her clitoris. Check it out. See if her clit has gotten hard enough to peek out of it's covering. If so, lick it. If you can't see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your tongue up to the top of her slit and feel for her clit. You may barely experience it's presence. But even if you can't feel the tiny pearl, you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers it. Lick hard now and press into her skin. Gently pull the pussy lips away and flick your tongue against the clitoris, hood covered or not. Do this quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder. When you sense she's getting up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and take the clit into your mouth. Start to suck gently and watch your lady's face for her reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. If she digs it, suck even harder. Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension of her rising orgasm, move with her, don't fight her. Hang on, and keep your hot mouth on her clit. Don't let go. That's what she'll be saying too: 'Don't stop. Don't ever stop!' There's a reason for that, most men stop too soon. Just like with cock sucking, this is something worth learning about and worth learning to do well.
There's another thing you can do to intensify your woman's pleasure while giving cunnilingus. You can finger-fuck her while she's enjoying your cunt-licking talents. Before, during or after. She'll really like it. In addition to the erogenous zones surrounding her clit, a woman has another extremely sensitive area at the roof of her vagina. This is what you rub up against when you're fucking her. Well, since your cock is pretty far away from your mouth, your fingers will have to do the fucking. Take two fingers. One is too skinny and three is too wide and therefore can't get deep enough. Make sure they're wet so you don't irritate her skin. Slide them inside, slowly at first, then a little faster. Fuck her with them rhythmically. Speed up only when she does. Listen to her breathing. She'll let you know what to do. If you're sucking her clit and finger-fucking her at the same time, you're giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her with your cock alone. So you can count on it that she's getting high on this. If there's any doubt, check her out for symptoms. Each woman is unique. You may have one who's nipples get hard when she's excited or only when she's having an orgasm. Your woman might turn flush red or begin to tremble. Get to know her symptoms and you'll be a more sensitive lover. When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven's sakes, don't let go of that clitoris. Hang in there for the duration.
When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clitoris, leaving your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her vagina. If your fingers are inside, move them a little too, gently though, things are extremely sensitive just now. If you play your cards right, you'll get some multiple orgasms this way. A woman stays excited for a full hour after she's had an orgasm. The last advice I have for you is this: After you've made her come, make her your slave by giving her the best head she's ever had, don't leave her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts, pinch her nipples. Keep making love to her quietly until she's come all the way down. A man can get off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman by nature requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex. Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experiences you can have. But it's what you make it.
Take your time, practice cunnilingus often, pay attention to your lover's signals, and most of all, enjoy yourself.
Re: Be not afraid, you people, for she has arisen!
I SWEAR TO GOD!!! they say timing is everything, I've been drinking beer heavily the past couple of days, today Im sober, my girlfriend told me that i've been abusing her mentally, I had no idea what I had told her, she says alot of stuff, and she is worried about me, so anyway, I go to a Store here in Phoenix, this lady cashier (I've never met) tells me she wants to marry me, Im like Ooooook, she grabs my forearm as she hands me my change, she then talks, and talks like im her husband, luckily no one else was in line behind me. Although she was abbout 45 or 50 years old, I must admit I found her sexually appealing, but, I am a TAKEN MAN! My girlfriend is 8 years older than me, I find older women much more sexually appealing, don't get me wrong, young women are also sexually nice, just a preference for me, any way my HANGOVER IS ALMOST GONE NOW, THANK GOD! I really need to get to the ROOT OF MY DRINKING PROBLEM, it is somewhat troubling to me, and those who LOVE ME, GOD HELP ME. Im the MAN! dammit! Ill sober up for a few months, for her sake, cause I love her dearly.