when I confront members of my family and friends about my past, they STOP communciating with me
Why don't you put yourself in their place, what if your son or daughter after some years accused you of the same thing?
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I have witnesses. My husband and children who have known me for 20+ years!! and they now know that SOMETHING happened to me in my PAST that I wasn't even aware of until several years ago.
So your husband and children were reassured by your unexplained etching? do you have clear memories, with faces and specific periods these things happened to you or only some blurred visions?
You need to READ what I have written because you are not comprehending correctly.
I said that my family members stop communicating with me when I inquire about my past!!
They have not severed their relationship with me because I have accused them of anything.
Again, family and friends STOP communicating with me when I inquire about my past.
Secondly, since I don't know you and you don't know me, you are not in a position to judge what my husband and children know about my past which encompasses much more than etchings!!
Why do you feel i am attacking you, i believe there are still alot of good people out there, not every stranger is a devil!, perhaps you need to trust God more, do you believe in God?
I just thought that you accused your family of abuse because of the word you used, you said you 'confronted' them.
Ofcourse you don't owe me any answers, but i believe you owe yourself one, a very clear decisive one.
Otherwise you will never feel real happiness again.
Why do you feel i am attacking you, i believe there are still alot of good people out there, not every stranger is a devil!, perhaps you need to trust God more, do you believe in God?
I just thought that you accused your family of abuse because of the word you used, you said you 'confronted' them.
Ofcourse you don't owe me any answers, but i believe you owe yourself one, a very clear decisive one.
Otherwise you will never feel real happiness again.
I don't feel that you're attacking me, Ahmad. I just find it frustrating conversing with you.
What is the deal with you thinking every stranger is the devil???
I keep my religious beliefs to myself!!
Confronted doesn't mean accused.
Thanks for the advice regarding the clear, decisive answer that you believe I owe myself, but certainly, Ahmad, you are not in a position to advise me.
I know what real happiness is!!
It's to have survived my abuse and to be where I am today.
Submission is the name our father Abraham gave God's only religion. It was the religion of all the messengers and prophets, e.g: Moses, Jesus and Muhammad.
[3:67] Abraham was neither Jewish, nor Christian; he was a monotheist submitter. He never was an idol worshiper.
Satan subverted every stage of the message though, and we ended up with different religions instead of one because of Satan's distortions. If all the people believe in God alone without idolizing the creatures (Rabbis, Jesus, saints, Mary, Muhammad...etc) the Human kind would finally live in peace.
[3:85] Anyone who accepts other than Submission as his religion, it will not be accepted from him, and in the Hereafter, he will be with the losers.